I purchased Kit1 from Amazon and would like to integrate a wireless option with our Paxton Net2 system.
Basically I would like the option of using the wireless remote instead of using a keyfob or access card.
My first thought is to wire in parallel to exit button but I am really unsure if thats possible.
Yes I think your first thought is correct (actually I think it might be the only way to get into the system, because other interface might be encoded).
I think you can draw power from the Paxton mainboard, and connect NO & COM output in parallel to exit button.